Choosing an Adoptive Family

By Leah Sheldon Who will love my baby as much as I do? Many pregnant women considering adoption find themselves asking this question. Finding an adoptive family can be a life-changing experience. It can also bring doubts and insecurities to the surface, even if you are sure that adoption is the best choice for you. … Continued

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Captured in Poetry, Two Adoptions

By Rachel Herndon, ACSW, Birthparent Services Coordinator I recently had the pleasure of working with a 19-year-old birthmother, Allis, who herself was adopted at birth by her parents, Paul and Christina. Her adoptive parents were very supportive of her decision to place her unborn son in an open adoption and heard about a wonderful family … Continued

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Finding Neil, My Birth Father

Her eyes bulge and take up most of the space on her round face. Her thinning, blond hair stands up in places like pieces of fine straw. My birth mother looks over 60, but she is not a day over 45. I guess alcohol, cigarettes, and the Arizona sun will do that to you. People … Continued

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Doulas in Adoption – Wanting to be helpful

By Randie Bencanann, LCSW, Adoption Connection Co-director Last Wednesday, I participated in a wonderful evening sponsored by the Bay Area Doula Project. It was a panel discussion organized to bring adoption information to the doula community and local reproductive rights organizers and supporters. (Yes, it was game one of the World Series— but we were … Continued

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Needing Someone Who Will Listen

By Leah Sheldon An unplanned pregnancy can bring up many different emotions. When Cricket unexpectedly discovered that she was pregnant, she decided immediately to make an adoption plan for her baby. Cricket says, “I’d gone through a bad break-up with the birth father and was in no position to raise a child at that point … Continued

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